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February 13, 2010

The Art of Letting Go(time heal all wounds)

Filed under: club love — rxpaola1925 @ 6:50 am

One of the reason why people get sentimental is because memories they had are the only things that don’t change when everything else does. There are things in life that you can’t hold on forever no matter how much you fight for it. Destiny at times may not always be good, it tends to be playful. When you meet someone you learned to love, you thought that it was destiny who made you’re path’s cross. But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that playful destiny create? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought that was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay..
but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’ve already fallen.

Its not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love. Some might think its just an excuse, some might not actually believe,some will blame you, some might even be mad at you. What they don’t see is the fact that, it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt specially when you can’t actually state the reason why you have to leave.

You can never own something that was never yours, so lets stop gripping on things we expect to last forever. Nothing last forever, forever is a lie, everything is a transitory. So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it’s just borrowed. So that someday when its gone, it wont take you eternity just to let it go. When your feelings get strong for some one, its always wise to stop for a while and give your heart  a time to breathe. A time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on the reason not on emotion, because the saddest thing that can happen, is when one fall in love while the other want’s nothing more than friendship.

Love can sometimes be magic, but magic can sometimes be an illusion.
There are times when I wish that I was limited to certain emotions, so that I’ll never have to experience pain never feel betrayed or disappointed and never get my fragile heart broken. But the same thing means I’ll never know how it feels to love and be love in return. The thought of it kind of scares me, to have a heart that’s whole but numb, or a hearts that’s broken but real.
Someday we’ll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt cry and fight. Maybe when that time comes well be laughing at our old dumb selves, realizing how stupid we are to stand up for things we knew weren’t really meant for us. But i guess learning takes time, and mistakes makes one’s journey fun. LIFE IS WHAT WE MAKE, LOVE MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND. So lets live, love and take what ever pain it brings though its hard to wait around for something that you know will never happen, its harder to stop when you know its everything you’ve always wanted. Goodbyes may hurt so bad but time heals all wound maybe not right at the moment but time will come and you’ll just realized that you’ve already moved on. Saying goodbye doesn’t mean its the end, it may be the start of something better so just be glad about everything that happens and be thankful.



  1. sometimes you have to let go to see if there is anything worth holding into.

    Comment by schonmarai — February 20, 2010 @ 5:20 am

  2. on to rather…

    Comment by schonmarai — February 20, 2010 @ 5:21 am

  3. sometimes you have to let go to see if there is anything worth holding on to…

    Comment by schonmarai — February 20, 2010 @ 5:22 am

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